June 19, 2025

Living a Transformed Life – Romans 12

How do we live a truly transformed life? One that reflects not the world’s standards, but God’s? In Romans 12, Paul invites us to stop imitating the ideals and opinions of the culture around us and instead be transformed—completely—by the renewing of our minds. But what does that actually look like?

Let’s break it down.

Stop Measuring by the World’s Standards

Paul says we’re to live a life that is beautiful, satisfying, and perfect in God’s eyes. Not ours. Not the culture’s. That means letting go of the usual measuring sticks: income, likes, vacations, influence, or square footage. Instead, we ask: Am I walking in God’s will? Am I bearing fruit that reflects Him?  What does God use for measuring sticks?  

Transformation Is a Metamorphosis

The word Paul uses for “transformation” in Greek is metamorphoo—the same word used to describe Jesus’ transfiguration. It’s not just a tweak or tune-up. It’s the same total, radical shift that turns a caterpillar into a butterfly. That’s what God wants to do in us—from immature to mature, from self-centered to Spirit-led.

What’s the Evidence of This Shift?

We know the fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. But Paul gives even more in Romans 12—practical signs of a renewed mind:

  • Humility: Don’t think more highly of yourself than you should. Are we creating a false sense of our own importance? Are we constantly correcting others, feeling like everything depends on us?
  • Unity: Know your role. Stay in your lane. Trust that God gave others unique gifts too. Support them. Lead with grace, not control.
  • Sincere Love: Love genuinely. Don’t fake it. Celebrate others. Show compassion. Share space. Make room for someone else to shine.
  • Perseverance & Generosity: Don’t quit when it gets hard—lean into prayer. Help others. Bless your enemies. Even your competition. (Yes, even them.)

Check the Fruit of Your Thoughts

The way we think shapes the way we live. If your thoughts are rooted in fear, pride, or self-promotion, that fruit will show up. But if your mind is being renewed by the Spirit, the fruit will be peace, love, patience, and trust.

And transformation? It’s not something we strive for. Like a caterpillar entering a chrysalis, it’s part of our design. God built this into us. Our job is to surrender, to rest in Him, and let the Holy Spirit do the work.

Final Thought

Years ago, someone told me they were surprised to learn I was a Christian. And it stung. Not because they were mean—but because there was nothing in my life that pointed to Christ. I was living like the world, using the world’s measuring sticks, and calling it good.

That moment planted a seed of conviction. Not shame—but a gentle prompting from the Holy Spirit that started to shift my thinking.

I pray the same for you—that this week, you’d welcome the Spirit’s conviction. Not striving. Not shame. Just a holy invitation to surrender and be transformed by His love.

Let’s be a people who live differently, love deeply, and reflect the visible glory of God in the everyday stuff of life.

You are in Christ. You are a new creation. And this world needs to see the transformed you.

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Sarahjane Chartier is a Christian Mindset Coach who specializes in helping Christian leaders get clear on WHO they are designed and called to be by God; helping them determine the next best steps so they can accelerate living intentionally and experience peace, joy, and contentment in every season of life. Sarahjane uses her unique background, work experience, education, and her training as a personal development coach to create a positive, future-focused, motivating environment which facilitates and encourages personal and professional growth rooted in the truth found in the Word of God.

“Life motivation comes from the deep longings of your heart. and the passion to see them fulfilled urges you onward- Proverbs 16:26”

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Rick’s leadership extends beyond the pulpit—he brings vision, compassion, and commitment to every aspect of his ministry. His experiences, both challenging and transformative, have shaped his approach to preaching and counseling, emphasizing second chances and the unconditional love of Christ.

Rick is married to his wife, Lacey, and together they have three children: Sadie, Amariah, and Josiah. Outside of his pastoral duties, Rick enjoys spending time outdoors, particularly fly fishing, which allows him to connect with God’s creation in a personal way.

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